Pre-Supposition 6: Calibrate to behavior.
Pre-Suppositon #6: Calibrate to behavior. The most important information about a person is that person’s behavior. I am on a plane right now as I am writing this. And we are off-coarse. [...]
Pre-Supposition 5: Everyone is doing the best they can with the resources they have available.
Pre-Supposition #5: Everyone is doing the best they can with the resources they have available. Behavior is geared for adaption, and the present behavior is motivated by a positive intent. That verse [...]
Pre-Supposition #4: People are not their behaviors.
Pre-Suppositon #4: People are not their behaviors. Accept the person, change the behavior. Stem Cells. Do you know how Stem cells work? They were first discovered in the Umbilical Cord. They are [...]
Leaders Eat Last Post 5
Simon Sinek Explains how to Control the Chemicals that control Human Behavior. Our body is specifically built to increase our survival. Including the chemicals it creates. There are 4 primary chemicals that [...]
Rule #3: Resistance is a Sign of lack of Rapport
Rule #3: Resistance is a Sign of lack of rapport. If you can’t build rapport, you must respect their model of the world. In NLP (and life), it all starts with Rapport. [...]
Rule #2: Behavior and change are only evaluated in terms of context and Ecology
Rule #2: Behavior and change are only evaluated in terms of Context and Ecology Right vs Wrong and Good vs Bad are very subjective. Does this work or not is a lot [...]
Rule #1: Always Respect other people’s model of the World
Rule #1: Always respect other people’s model of the world. You don’t have to buy into it though. This one seems particularly important, and missing in today's world. It goes back to [...]
The Birthing of Thoughts and Action
The Grand Formula for adding ANYTHING to your Life Programming -> Thoughts -> Feelings -> Emotions -> Actions -> Results In the initial post of this series we did an introduction [...]